Winning your ex back can be fairly challenging. It is important to know that the things that you say while broken up can have a huge impact on whether or not you will ever get back together with your ex. Here are 5 things to avoid saying to your ex if you really want to win him back.
1. I’m going to kill myself
If you’re feeling suicidal due to the broke up, it is important for you to seek help. More often than not, however, girls tell their ex boyfriends that they’re going to kill themselves for attention. They want their ex boyfriend’s sympathy. This will do one of two things. It will either scare your ex boyfriend away because he will think that you’re a crazy psycho. This is the likely scenario. There’s also a chance that your ex boyfriend may get back together with you so that you don’t kill yourself. Do you really want this to be the only reason that your ex gets back with you? Because he feels sorry for you? The best thing that you can do is refrain from saying this at all if you want a positive future with your ex.
2. I can’t live without you / I need you
This is probably how you feel at the moment. A breakup can be rough. Even if you do not think that you can ever live without your boyfriend because you do need him, it is important to never let him know that this is the way that you feel. You don’t want your ex to know that he has any type of power over you. Letting him know that you can’t go on without him will reinforce the idea that he is the one who has all of the control over the relationship. Making him feel this way will not ever encourage him to get back together with you. It will only cause him to want to play games.
3. I hate you / I never really loved you
If you really want to get back together with an ex, these are a few of the things that you should definitely avoid saying. It is very easy to say these things out of an anger to an ex boyfriend. If you don’t mean them, you should definitely avoid saying them, no matter how upset you are. This is especially difficult in the beginning. It can also be challenging when time goes by because you will probably feel frustrated when your ex doesn’t get back together with you right away. And you may feel like you hate your ex sometimes, but if you really did hate him, you wouldn’t be trying to win him back…would you?
Saying one of the above things can really hurt your chances of getting back together with your ex. The best thing that you can do is be yourself. Check out our last blog entry on whether you should be bitchy your ex.
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