Possibly one of the most difficult things to ever do is find out whether or not your ex is over you. While it may seem easy, you may find yourself reading mixed signals, which will confuse you and make it even harder to discover the truth. They don’t say relationships are complicated for no reason – they really are arguably the most confusing and complicated things you will ever come across in your life!

I had a friend who split up with her boyfriend a year ago. She spent weeks trying to figure out whether he was over her or not. The difficulty that she faced was the fact that he wouldn’t even speak to her or reply to her texts and emails, so she was left almost guessing whether he was over her or not. Sometimes, it may be the case that your ex is very heartbroken as well, and would rather not speak to you in order not to hurt himself even more. He may also be too proud to turn around and admit that he still loves you and wants to be with you again.

Anyway, my friend eventually found out that her ex had a new girlfriend, within about a week after leaving her. While it may seem that your ex is over you just because he has a new girlfriend, he may be doing it to make you jealous, so never come to hasty conclusions about it. However, it is certainly most likely that he is over you and wants to move on with a different girl if he has gotten himself into a new relationship. If he’s not over you, there’s more chance that he’ll stay single in order to keep himself free in case you both get back together in the near future.


In my friend’s case, she soon found out that he’d been with this other girl for months, and had been dating them both at the same time! If you find out that your ex has done this, you can rest assured that he’s well and truly over you. Nobody who truly loves you will have another girlfriend on the side for a long period of time. If you discover that your ex has been doing this, not only will you be sure that he’s over you, but you’ll probably feel a huge sense of relief that you’ve been able to get away from somebody who has so little respect for you.

If your ex has gotten a new girlfriend and consistently shows off with her in front of you, he’s probably just trying to make you jealous and isn’t being very serious with the other girl. However, if it’s quite obvious that he’s just going about his own daily life without really bothering about you, he’s probably moved on and found another relationship. You should look for the way he acts when he’s around you or if you bump into each other and he’s with another girl. Then compare it to how he is around you when he’s not with another girl. If he’s just the same and doesn’t seem to show off in either situation, he’s trying to let you know that he’s over you now and has moved on.