While there are some girls who have an ex who won’t talk to them at all, there are others who have an ex who won’t leave them alone. If this happens, should you be bitchy to your ex? Will it help increase your chances of getting back together with him in the future, or will it just push him away even more? Here’s what you should consider.

If your ex is persistently calling you or trying to contact you, then you may be a little bit baffled – especially if he hasn’t made any efforts to hang out with you. It is important to think about what he is saying. Does he say that he wants to be with you still? If so, do you think that there’s a chance he is leading you on? Under these circumstances, then it is important to stand your ground.

You do not necessarily need to be bitchy, per se. However, you do need to come up with certain expectations for your ex boyfriend. Try to turn this whole situation around on your ex. Tell him that if he wants to be with you, then he will make the effort to see you. Otherwise, he should not waste both your and his time by constantly trying to contact you. Once you come up with these “rules” or guidelines, it is important for you to stand your ground. You never EVER want to allow your ex boyfriend to walk all over you.

When talking to an ex, the best thing that you can do is avoid being overly nice to him. Although you need to have a certain level of respect for your ex, you should not give him any type of special treatment. Treat him the same way that you would treat any of your friends. By making the decision to break up with you, he lost the privilege to that special treatment from you. Until he makes the decision to get back together with you, you do not have to go out of your way to be nice. Also keep in mind that if you’re trying to win him back, you won’t want to be rude. You don’t want to give any type of attitude because he won’t want to get back together with you if you don’t show his respect or decency.

The main key is to find a balance. Don’t be overly nice. At the same time, don’t be rude or overly bitch to your ex boyfriend either. Remember that the way you act towards your ex will have a huge impact on whether or not you will get back together.